

Yesterday Jackson and I headed for the pediatrician for his 3-year check-up. Parts of it went well, and other parts were very frustrating. He freaked out for the weigh-in and height measurement... not sure why. At that same time, the nurse wanted to take his blood pressure -- yeah, right. Not a chance. So, she takes us back to the exam room, and asks if I can get him to pee in a cup. Again, yeah, right... he won't even pee in the potty, let alone a cup!!
He was great for the exam, though, which suprised me after the weigh-in episode. His weight and height were good (28lbs, 36 inches -- 25% for both).
The biggest issue we had was his speech. Last year, the ped. said that all he needed to be on track was to be able to say at least 50 words and combine 2 in a sentence. She said that Jackson might be a little behind, but he would catch up before he was three. At this appointment, when I told her my concerns about his speech (not conversing with us, not asking questions, etc), she said, "Have we not had this evaluated?". Ugh... she told me last year not to worry about it!! So anyway, he is going to be referred for a speech evaluation.
My biggest frustration was what the ped. said to Jackson. In this sweet voice, she said, "I don't know
what is wrong with you, why you fussed. Everyone here is so nice...". She told my child that she didn't know what was wrong with him. Excuse me??? Maybe I took it the wrong way, but I would never condescendingly ask someone what was wrong with them, especially not a child!
Despite what she said, Jackson is a healthy 3 year-old!!